Friday, October 25, 2013

change and hope

A little more than two months and Darrin and I will be retired. I've spent the last several months bringing up little things - and taking down a few things. Most of the Christian symbols I have put away. My decorating has gone to pictures of nature, a couple of quilted wall hangings, and (this was big for me) my broom collection is on display. Notice I said most of the Christian symbols are gone, not all. I'm trying to balance out both sets of beliefs and still (ever so gently) trying to explain to Darrin how much I love him, how much my beliefs have changed, and how much I love him. Know what I mean?

I am happy (and amazed) to report that he may have actually heard, understood, and accepted what I've told him.

A couple of Saturdays ago we got up early to walk to our friends' house - we had been invited for breakfast and since they live less than a mile, we decided it was a perfect opportunity for a little exercise. I was still getting dressed when I heard Darrin talking to someone at the front door. When I came into the living room no one was there. Turns out the Jehovah Witnesses were out in the neighbor and when they stopped by Darrin simply told them no thanks. He said he thought about making them wait to let me talk with them (with all the bible studying I've done in my life I'm quite good at taking folks on, verse by verse). Then he looked at me and said, "Next time someone comes to the door I'm going to tell them Let me get my wife. She's a witch."

I hugged him and said, "You do that."

Either the spirit of Halloween is making him more playful or maybe he's starting to see the light.

Life is good.

Then again, maybe it's that broom collection.




  1. It's a good feeling when your Hubby actually listens and tries to understand.
    Good for you!
    I don't flaunt my witchy craft items but I do keep a nature altar( natural things that represent the four elements) on our bookcase.
    I knew Hubs was getting use to the idea of my focus when he made a joke one day complaining /joking that he was a luddite and I was a witch.
    This last Yule holiday I removed everything that was of a Christmas bent and had only snowflake ornaments, silver ornaments and owl ornaments on our tree.
    It takes time to change but it is worth the wait.

  2. Amazing! You inspire me.

  3. LOL, that's funny! And so close to retirement -- are you happy about that? I sure would be!